The Unexpected Ripple: When Solo Bliss Meets a Hint of Maybe

For a good while now, my life has been a solo adventure, and honestly? I've been loving it. There's a certain freedom in setting your own schedule, in having the remote all to yourself, in knowing the only opinion that truly matters at the end of the day is your own. I've cultivated a comfortable rhythm, a happy independence that I truly cherish. The thought of disrupting that rhythm, of sharing my space and my time in a significant way, felt… well, foreign.

I’d reached a point where I was genuinely content in my own company. Romantic comedies felt like fiction, and the idea of butterflies in my stomach seemed like a distant memory. I was good. Truly good.

And then, like a gentle ripple in a calm pond, someone walked into my life.

It started innocently enough, just a connection, a shared laugh. But somewhere along the way, that ripple started to spread. We get along effortlessly. The energy between us is just… right. It's the kind where conversations flow easily, where jokes land perfectly, and where comfortable silences are just as enjoyable as the lively banter.

And let's be honest, the physical chemistry is undeniable. It’s the kind that makes you wonder where this person has been all your life.

It's a strange feeling, this budding happiness. It’s unexpected, a little unsettling even, because it’s stirring up emotions I thought were dormant. I find myself looking forward to seeing them, a little flutter in my chest when my phone buzzes with a message. It's a feeling I haven't experienced in a long time, and surprisingly, it feels… good. Really good.

There's a part of me that's still clinging to the comfort of my solo life, the ease of my routine. But there's another part, a quieter, more curious part, that's intrigued by this new development. This unexpected spark.

It's weird, this shift. Going from happily single to suddenly having feelings for someone. It feels like navigating uncharted territory. But you know what? I think I'm just going to go with it.

I'm not going to overthink it. I'm not going to try to predict the future or analyze every interaction. I'm just going to enjoy the present moment, the laughter, the connection, the amazing… well, you know.

Whatever happens, happens. And right now, in this moment, I'm happy. And that, I think, is a pretty good place to be.

Justin Aaron Morris

Creative Designer, Visual Media Creator, and Writer based in Wisconsin.

https://www.justinaaronmorris.com
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