
The Weight We Carry: When Holding It Together Falls Apart
The irony is often brutal. The people who witnessed your quiet endurance, your willingness to let things go, are often the most surprised – and sometimes the most critical – when the volcano finally erupts. The built-up resentment, the unexpressed hurt, the sheer volume of what you've been carrying in silence can manifest in ways that feel disproportionate to the immediate trigger.

Friendship: A Garden of Kindness and Acceptance (Weeding Out the Negativity)
We adore our friends for their unique quirks and celebrate their triumphs as our own. We learn from their perspectives, grow alongside them, and build a rich history together through shared moments, big and small. This positive energy fuels us, uplifts us, and makes the journey of life so much brighter.

Embracing the Cozy: Saying "No" to the Night Out and "Yes" to Yourself
I've been there. The group chat is buzzing with plans, and a little voice inside you whispers, "Stay home." It can feel like a betrayal, a missed opportunity, or even a bit… lonely? But I'm learning that saying "no" to the night out isn't a rejection of friendship; it's an affirmation of self.

My Peace Treaty with Dating: Embracing the Beauty of Being Alone
But lately, a different kind of warmth has been growing in my life – the unwavering comfort and joy of my friendships. I've realized that the connection and support I crave aren't exclusively romantic. My friends are my rocks, my confidantes, my partners in crime for everything from trying out new restaurants to simply sharing a laugh-filled evening at home.

The Push and Pull: When Your Heart Says Yes, But Your Head Screams No
Every fiber of my being wants to lean in, to explore this connection, to see where it could go. But then the logical, albeit cynical, part of my brain kicks in. The voice that whispers (or sometimes shouts), "Remember what happened last time? Remember the disappointment? The way it felt to care so deeply and have it not be reciprocated?"

Greasy Noodles, Late Mornings, and the Single Life Shuffle 🍜
Greasy Chinese Food: Think saucy noodles, crispy spring rolls, and that satisfying, slightly-too-much-MSG afterglow. My kitchen? Currently a battlefield of takeout containers.

The Gentle Symphony of Rain and Steam: Finding Cozy in a Coffee Shop ☕️
Find your spot – perhaps a plush armchair tucked away in a corner, or a window seat offering a front-row view of the downpour. The gentle murmur of voices blends with the clinking of mugs and the hiss of the espresso machine, creating a comforting background hum that's both energizing and relaxing.

Tired of the Constant Cloud ☁️
It's disheartening to witness someone surrounded by love and understanding choose to dismiss it, to push it away with a constant barrage of complaints and negativity. It's as if they're so consumed by their own pain that they can't see the outstretched hands reaching out to help them.

My Sassy Guide to Blocking Negative Nancies (and Nates)
There's a difference between a friend having a bad day (we all have 'em, and you know I'll be there with wine and bad reality TV) and someone who consistently rolls into your life like a negativity tornado. You know the ones. The constant complainers, the drama starters, the people who suck the joy out of a room faster than a toddler with a vacuum cleaner.

The Space Between Us Feels Like an Ocean
And the worst part? The insidious little voice in my head that whispers, "It's your fault." I find myself replaying every interaction, every perceived flaw, every way I might not measure up to some invisible standard. I dissect myself, searching for the reason why I’m deemed worthy of stolen moments but not of open acknowledgment.

Ditch the Roomie Drama: Why Solo Living is the Ultimate Glow-Up
Think about it. You walk through your own damn door after a long day. No awkward small talk about Brenda from accounting's latest meltdown. No tiptoeing around someone else's questionable cooking experiments. Just pure, unadulterated you space.

Ditch the Date, Dine Solo: A Sassy Celebration of Self-Sufficiency
But hold on a hot minute. Dining solo isn't some scarlet letter of singledom. It's a power move. It's a declaration to the universe (and that judgy couple by the window) that you are a magnificent, self-sufficient, independent badass who doesn't need a plus-one to enjoy a damn good meal.

My Dating Life: A Comedy of Errors (Starring Me, the Unsuspecting Fool)
I've been doing this whole dating thing for a while now, and it's been a journey. Think emotional rollercoaster designed by a sadist. The highs? Fleeting. The lows? Well, let's just say I've become intimately acquainted with my couch and a family-sized tub of ice cream. And I've noticed a pattern. A frustrating, soul-crushing pattern.

The Tightrope Walk: Dating with ADHD and Schizophrenia
What I truly crave is someone who is supportive, not controlling. Someone who understands that taking medication is part of my journey, but it doesn't define who I am. Someone who celebrates my triumphs, big or small, and offers a hand to hold during the inevitable rough patches.

Turkey Club Reflections: It All Comes Back to You (and Maybe a Little Someone Else)
Some relationships are like a one-way ticket to somewhere completely unexpected. They sweep you off your feet and take you on an adventure, far from the life you once knew. Others are the gentle hand that guides you back home, reminding you of where you came from and the values that truly matter.

The Unexpected Ripple: When Solo Bliss Meets a Hint of Maybe
I’d reached a point where I was genuinely content in my own company. Romantic comedies felt like fiction, and the idea of butterflies in my stomach seemed like a distant memory. I was good. Truly good.

My Bisexual Life: AKA How I Confuse My Straight Friends (and Have a Blast Doing It)
See, here's the kicker: I'm bisexual. And darling, let me tell you, it's basically a superpower. It's like having a dating cheat code, but, you know, the ethical kind. The kind that involves more charm and less…well, cheating.

The Case for Separate Apartments: Or, Why I Love My Partner More When They're Not There (Sometimes)
So, the next time someone raises an eyebrow at your unconventional living situation, just smile knowingly and say, "We're just maximizing our relationship ROI.

Why I'm Still Single: A Hilarious (and Heartfelt) Journey Through the Dating Jungle
And to all my fellow singles out there, navigating this crazy dating world: you are not alone. Keep your standards high, your heart open, and your sense of humor intact. Because let’s be honest, sometimes all you can do is laugh. And maybe write a slightly-too-long blog post about it.

Surviving Small-Town Wisconsin: A Love Letter to Solitude Wisconsin
This is a humorous take on life in Wisconsin. I love my home state, and I know many wonderful people here. But let's be real, sometimes you gotta laugh at yourself (and your fellow cheeseheads).